Abstract
All research is a social construction. In this paper, we work to illuminate those moments of co-constructed meaning by taking readers on a "behind the scenes" tour of a collaborative research project that explored educator relationships. We describe our priorities in and care for participant recruitment and scheduling, our post -hoc reflections on the differences in emotional tenor between interviews and focus groups, and our own roles and positionalities within the data collection and analysis process. Action-items are recommended for other group-based qualitative studies to humanize the process of research and prioritize moments of agency, trust, and connection among participants.